An Epistolary for Nurses - Guilty?

To the Nurse Who Wants More but Feels Guilty About Leaving

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⏪Why This Letter Exists

I write these letters to you because the thoughts you rarely say out loud are the same ones I hear in conversations with expert nurses and healthcare professionals every week.

The uncertainty.
The guilt.
The quiet awareness that something no longer fits, even when you remain deeply committed to the profession.

This series exists to call by name what many professionals experience but struggle to articulate. It is also why The Bold Brief and the Bold Nurse Academy were created.

✖️Not to tell you to leave, ✅but to help you to understand what you are feeling, translate it into clarity, and move forward with intention when you are ready.

If this letter feels personal, it is because it is drawn directly from those difficult conversations.

Many people just like you have worked too hard to be here, and now you are wondering if you want to stay.

That is not something most people say out loud. Especially not in nursing.

Here is what I want you to know, today and in the future:

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I want you to know that it is okay to want more.

More room to grow authentically.
More alignment and balance.
More challenges without the chaos.
More recognition and confidence.
More fulfillment and happiness.

⏱️You might be early in your career, wondering if you made a mistake.
⏱️⏱️You might be mid-career, pulled in every direction with nothing left in your cup.
⏱️⏱️⏱️You might be a seasoned expert, realizing the system has changed and not always for the better.

And somewhere in there is the guilt.

You tell yourself - just like many other nurses that:

“I should be grateful.”
“This is the job I signed up for.”
“What if leaving makes me a failure, or worse, a fraud?”

Let me say this plainly:

✖️ Wanting more from life and career does not mean you are abandoning nursing.
✅ It means you are honoring the part of you that knows your value.

There is nothing shameful about seeking work - life-career that allows you to use your knowledge, experience, and empathy in new ways.

There is no failure in refusing to pour from an empty cup, or in wanting to build something that fits the life you live now.

You do not have to leave the profession to change your path.
But if you do, that does not make you less of a nurse.

  1. Earlier in this series in To the Nurse Who’s Tired of Toughing It Out, we spoke to the exhaustion that many professionals carry quietly and the realization that growth often begins before clarity arrives.

  2. In To the Nurse Who’s Outgrown the Bedside but Isn’t Sure What’s Next, we explored how evolving beyond a role is not loss, but evidence of growth.

  3. And in To the Nurse Who’s Afraid It’s Too Late to Change, we named the fear that timing has passed when in reality experience is often the very thing that makes change possible.

  4. This letter lives in the space between those truths.

You are allowed to want more.
And you do not need to justify that to anyone.

This is the moment where you become honest about what comes next.

When you are ready to ask yourself what you want, I will be here with 11,000+ nurses and healthcare professionals, to help you find what fits now.

Choose loyalty and growth because you are allowed to hold both.

Comment Below to share what you choose for yourself beyond loyalty and growth. 

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